Archive for May, 2009

Please Bear with Me

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

I have not forsaken you guys. I have been ministering to an extremely sick pup (little Libby) and I haven’t had much time for the Bone. I will be back soon. Promise.

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Rest Easy Brothers

Monday, May 11th, 2009


We kicked off events for National Police Week with a memorial for our fallen officers in front of Headquarters today. Three of our widows were present for the ceremony and placed flowers on the monument in honor of their fallen spouses during the ceremony. It was extremely moving.

Our oldest surviving spouse on hand today was Mrs. Steed. Her husband, Ralph Steed, was killed in the line of duty 47 years ago. Five other Chesapeake Police Officers have lost their lives since then. The wives of the last two, Michael Saffran and Jarrod Shivers, were also present.

I held my emotions until 85 year old Mrs. Steed reached out her hand to an emotional Mrs. Shivers as an Honor Guard Officer was escorting Mrs. Shivers back to her seat after she placed flowers on the memorial for Jarrod. Mrs. Shivers stopped and embraced Mrs. Steed in a heartfelt hug with both ladies crying and a collective gasp of emotion sweeping through the crowd as our oldest widow comforted our most recent widow. Mrs. Shivers then stepped over to Mrs. Saffran to hug her in support as well. It was a moment I won’t soon forget.


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Oprah, Some Chicken, & Me

Thursday, May 7th, 2009


Oprah treated me to dinner last night. How cool is that? She wasn’t there of course but, no matter, she picked up the tab and that’s the important part really. I hope you got your coupon because that is some good eatin’!

Thanks Oprah!

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Tuesday, May 5th, 2009


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A Genealogy Treasure Chest

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

I have found what I believe to be a most invaluable tool for genealogical research and I would like to share it with all of you. Believe it or not, it is EBay. For real though. I have actually been using it for quite some time now but some fantastic finds recently have prompted me to share with you.

I have set up a few custom searches within EBay utilizing select keywords…for instance, one search is for Johnston County, NC genealogy…then I subscribed to the searches for e-mail alerts in case anything pops up for sale matching my criteria. Granted, most of the time the e-mails don’t have anything too awfully interesting. BUT, every once in a while there’s that “OH MY GAWD” moment. You know the one. You run across something you never thought you would find…EVER…but there it is…and no one has bid on it yet…muhahahahaha…let the games begin!

I have found amazing things! Family trees written by hand that folks got a hold of in an estate sale and didn’t know what to with…seriously. Rare, hard to find, and out of print books right there staring back at me. Just this past month I found an auction for 38 issues of the Johnston County Genealogical Society Newsletter from the 70’s, 80’s and 90’s. They are now sitting in my study. Yes they are. I got the whole kit and caboodle for just 58 bucks. Some of these newsletters are over 70 pages long and all of them are chocked full of information. Can you say excited boys and girls?

I also got a hold of 4 volumes of library reference books, two published in 1919 and two published in 1928, that are page after page after page of biographies (and portraits) of leading North Carolina men of the time. Each of these books is well over 500 pages in length. I have already tied several of the gentlemen in the books (I’ve looked through part of two of them) into my tree. Again, way excited!

So, if you don’t already have a custom search or three set up, I suggest you do it right this minute. Why are you still reading this? Click over to EBay and get busy.

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Wascally Wabbit

Monday, May 4th, 2009

How bizarre!!

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My Smurfiversary

Friday, May 1st, 2009

Yes Lovelies, today is May Day, but today is so much more than that…today marks my Silver Anniversary with the CPD…my 25 year mark as a Smurf…my Smurfiversary!


Yeah me!!

Would that I could retire…sigh…but no… :( Our silly Commonwealth has a silly rule that you not only have to have a minimum of 25 years of service but you also have to be 50 years old. Well. That’s a problem. You see, most of us are not 50 after 25 years. Do the math. Start at 21 (or 22 for me), do 25 years, notice you’re not 50, hunker down for a couple more years.

Oh well. All I can say is, when that calendar rolls around to 50 for me, the path best be cleared or there shall be footprints left on any folks standing twixt me and the door! :)

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